The Process

The government can open the ‘Looking for my loved one’ service in the event of a disaster or major incident. It will only do so if there are casualties and if family members, friends and acquaintances are looking for one another: after a train or plane crash, for example, or following an incident at a big event, such as a football match or music concert.

In this case the government will open a national telephone number. Anyone who is concerned can then put in a request to look for a loved one. 

 

You are not looking for a loved one, but do have a question?

If you have general questions about the disaster or incident, you can call the information number of the local authority or safety region where the disaster has occurred. Within a safety region the police, fire service, hospitals, local authorities, citizens and businesses work together if there has been a disaster or major incident.

If there has not been a disaster or major incident, but someone you know is missing, please call the police on 0900-8844. 

 

Still questions?

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I have reported my loved one as missing. What happens now?

See what ‘I’m looking for my loved one’ will do for you on our process page.

How long will it take until I hear something about my loved one?

Usually your call will be returned within three hours, but sometimes it takes longer. This depends on the scale of the disaster or incident and how many people are caught up in it. As soon as your loved one has been found, we will update you as quickly as possible. We understand that waiting in this situation is difficult. We will do our best to call you back within six hours, Ook wanneer er dan nog niets bekend is over de persoon die je zoekt.

What happens if I find my loved one myself?

If you have been able to contact your family member, friend or acquaintance, please call 088 0908 000 and let us know that you are no longer looking for your loved one.

What is the difference between ‘Looking for my loved one’ and the ‘Ik ben veilig’ (‘I am safe’) website of the Red Cross?

If you are worried that a loved one – a family member, partner, friend or someone else you know – has been involved in a disaster or major incident and you are unable to make contact with them, ‘Looking for my loved one’ will help you search for this person by comparing your loved one’s details with those of any casualties.   

The Red Cross www.ikbenveilig.nl website provides an overview of the people who have registered themselves as being safe. On this website you can check whether the person you are looking for has reported that they are safe.

‘Ik ben veilig’ and ‘Looking for my loved one’ do not share information with one another.

What if other people are also looking for my loved one?

If other people are also looking for your loved one, we will nominate one contact person. This is often a family member, such as a parent, child, brother or sister. You may be nominated as the contact person yourself. In this case we will inform you where your loved one is once we have found him or her. If we are unable to find your loved one, we will also inform you of this. You can then pass on this information to other family members and friends.  

If you are not the contact person, we will tell you that someone else has been given the information and whether this person is a family member, friend or acquaintance. We will not pass on the name or telephone number of this person. For privacy reasons we are not permitted to share these details.  

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What is the difference between ‘Looking for my loved one’ and the information number of the local authority or safety region?

If you are worried that a loved one – a family member, partner, friend or someone else you know – has been involved in a disaster or major incident and you are unable to make contact with them, ‘Looking for my loved one’ will help you search for this person by comparing your loved one’s details with those of any casualties.   

If you have general questions about the incident, such as “How long do I need to keep my windows and doors shut?”, “Can I let my dog out?” or “When will the road be open again?”, you can call an information number. This number will be announced through social media. The ‘Looking for my loved one’ team will also know the number you can call.

Who should I contact if I have questions once the disaster or incident is over ?

Once the disaster or incident is over you can contact the local authority responsible for the area in which the disaster or incident occurred with any questions you may have. For example: “I am so scared. Who can I talk to to overcome my fear of loud noises?” or “I hear that there is going to be a silent march for the victims. What time does it start and where?” 

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